How to feel sexy, on your own, anywhere By Sunshine

Posted by Siobhan Barrett on

Imagine, a finger slowly outlining the edge of where lace makes a path across your body, warm breath on bare skin.

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The lingerie serving as the last curtain to be pulled before the finale begins. This prelude sends waves of anticipation, pleasure, and desire. You catch a glimpse of yourself outlined in a bit of delicate luxury and feel sexy.
Oh, and how nice that feels -- sexy.

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Sexy is not a feeling I get to experience often, it’s just never been my strong point. This has only been exacerbated by the fact that I live in rural Ethiopia, where I change my clothes once a week and bucket bathe less than that.

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As I packed for this two year adventure I was thinking function over fashion. Which is why I decided to bring only one pair of “nice” underwear – ones with satin and a little lace fringe - amidst the other “I don’t care about this tri-color, 12-pack of cotton ‘granny pannys’ my mom put in my stocking the Christmas before”, underwear. The tri-color pack is great. However, I am so grateful for the one pair of “nice” undies I decided to bring. Despite the fact that the lace is now torn on them, some of the little bows have fallen off, they are discolored, and probably send more of a “you should buy new underwear” message than a “sexy” message, I still love to wear them. I especially like to save wearing them for when I go to “the city.” Why?

how to feel sexy

Because they make me feel little fancier and dressed up, like I have a little secret that nobody but me knows. I feel a little daring. Or more, perhaps there is a random chance I meet someone and how glad I’d be that I was wearing my lace not my cotton. These are some of the things I think about as I put on my worn pair of lacey silky undies in the dark, up early to catch the 6am bus into town.

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But as I return home again in the dark of the evening, inevitably alone and untouched, I do not despair. For I still get to relish in the excitement of escaping the mundane.

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I keep the secret for myself.

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I get to feel the slow trace of my own finger and breathe against my skin. And on my own, in my lace, I feel sexy.

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 Written by Sunshine while serving in the Peace Corps in Ethiopia
Photography by Roseography
Model is Na'eema Napoleon 
She is wearing Black Bodysuits:

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  • Such a genuine voice and eloquent simplicity has allowed me to relate in a surprisingly familiar way, within wholely different circumstances. Love this meeting of the camera, the body, the lace and the word. Bravo

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